When we are at a loss for words to express our sadness and grief, it is customary to turn to flowers, with their colors and powerful meanings and symbols. From funeral rituals to bouquets of flowers sent by loved ones as a token of support, flowers help honor the memory of the deceased.
The question remains which flowers to choose for a funeral service. Each type of flower allows you to convey a specific message, whether you are a member of the deceased's family, a close friend, or just an acquaintance.
The meaning of flowers at funerals
Before choosing floral arrangements for a funeral or a bouquet to send to a bereaved family, it's a good idea to research the meaning of each flower. Beyond aesthetic or practical considerations (some flowers are more durable than others), learn about the message and symbolism the flowers convey.
You will then be able to make your choice according to your feelings and your degree of closeness to the deceased.
Fleur-de-lis: meaning
The lily is a very popular choice for funeral services, as it represents innocence restored to the soul of the deceased. It is frequently used in Catholic services. The stargazer lily, with its pink, ridged flower, is particularly popular, as it signifies encouragement in difficult times. The fleur-de-lis is a symbol of serenity and eternal peace, making it a suitable option for expressing deep condolences and feelings of comfort at funerals. Furthermore, its simple and elegant beauty brings a touch of dignity to the tribute to the deceased.
Rose: Meaning
Queen of flowers, the rose is one of the most well-known flowers and certainly the one we give the most, no matter the situation. There are so many species of roses in so many different colors that it's easy to choose the flower based on what you want to express.
If you choose white roses, know that they symbolize reverence, humility, innocence, and youth. In fact, they are often the flower used at children's funerals. A red rose symbolizes respect and love. They are generally used by the family and loved ones of the deceased. Friends of the deceased will prefer yellow roses, which symbolize friendship. Finally, light-colored roses can be used to deliver a message of sympathy.
Chrysanthemum: Meaning
In Europe, chrysanthemums are the flowers of death and are only used at funerals. These flowers symbolize eternity and require little maintenance, as they are resistant to cold temperatures and bloom until the first frost. Chrysanthemums are a discreet but respectful way to pay tribute to an acquaintance.
Gladiolus: meaning
Available in many colors, these flowers have long stems and will not go unnoticed in a floral arrangement. They are a symbol of sincerity, strength of character, and moral integrity. Gladiolus is also associated with memory and respect for the deceased, making it an appropriate choice for expressing sincere condolences and a respectful tribute. Its presence in funeral arrangements brings a touch of solemnity and dignity, while recalling the strength and perseverance of those who remain to honor the memory of their departed loved ones.
Carnation: meaning
Carnations are popular at funerals because, in addition to being long-lasting, these flowers are very fragrant. These flowers are a symbol of mourning and discretion, making them a good choice for acquaintances or colleagues of the deceased who wish to pay a discreet tribute.
Red carnations signify admiration, red carnations evoke remembrance, while white carnations – like all white flowers, express innocence and pure love.
Orchid: meaning
More sophisticated, orchids are not flowers to be given lightly: a little more expensive and sometimes difficult to maintain, they are often reserved for the deceased's inner circle. But nothing prevents you from offering this tasteful floral gift. In the context of funerals, the orchid can be interpreted as a tribute to the eternal beauty of the deceased and to the love that endures beyond earthly life. Its presence in floral arrangements brings a touch of elegance and sophistication, while expressing feelings of respect and admiration for the deceased.
Floral arrangement, bouquet or cut flowers?
Whether you're looking for arrangements to brighten up a funeral ceremony, or you'd like to send a few flowers to share your condolences, there are many ways to offer flowers at a funeral or cremation.
During the funeral ceremony, it is not uncommon for the family of the deceased to choose several floral arrangements to decorate the venue. They can be placed on the casket, the urn, near the deceased's photo and guestbook, or along the seats. Occasionally, guests at the ceremony offer arrangements to support the family and express their condolences.
Among these arrangements of pricked flowers, you can for example bet on a wreath, to which is often attached a ribbon bearing a message for the deceased. The rackets, which are placed on the coffin, are often made with roses, lilies and gerberas. Guests can also choose to offer sheaves of flowers , or fronts of grave, large bouquets in height, to place in front of the tombstone. Finally, acquaintances can turn to flower cushions , of various shapes.
If you are looking to offer flowers in a more personalized way, it is recommended to have a custom bouquet created, using the deceased's favorite flowers or those that best suit them.
Finally, cut flowers are a touching gesture for those who wish to place them on the coffin during the ceremony or before burial.
