Quels mots choisir pour une épitaphe ? Exemples et conseils

An epitaph is a text, a funerary inscription inscribed on a tombstone or a funerary monument. It can be a single word, a phrase, or a famous quote that represents the deceased well. If the deceased has not taken the time to choose their epitaph, it is customary for the family or loved ones to choose the text to be inscribed. It is a delicate act, but necessary to begin the work of mourning and honor the memory of the deceased.

Why write an epitaph?

This funeral inscription can be a wonderful opportunity to pay a final tribute to a loved one appreciated by their loved ones. It's a way to remember the life of the deceased, their accomplishments, their jokes, their joys, and their sorrows. This personalized tribute should obviously not be done in a hurry. Engraved on a tombstone, an epitaph is intended to last for several decades, come snow or rain. It is also a text that will be visible to all visitors to the cemetery, whether they know the person buried or not.

10 Examples of Epitaphs

Here are some examples of touching and meaningful epitaphs, testifying to the affection and respect we have for them.

  • Beloved and missed, rest in peace.
  • You will remain forever engraved in our hearts.
  • Here lies a loved one, loved by all.
  • His memory will live on forever in our memories.
  • Gone too soon, but never forgotten.
  • A loved one has passed away, leaving a void in our lives.
  • His love and kindness will always light up our hearts.
  • An angel gone to join the stars.
  • To the one who gave so much, may he finally rest in peace.
  • His light will continue to shine in our lives, despite his physical absence.

What type of epitaph should you choose?

It's therefore important to choose a memorial plaque text that truly represents the deceased. Are you writing an epitaph for a relative? Be tender and sentimental to remind them that they were a loving and beloved person. Do you want to pay tribute to the deceased's personal or professional accomplishments? Find the right wording to remind them that they left their mark on the world.

Finally, if the deceased was known for his good humor, his jokes and his comedic side, don't hesitate to use humor for his epitaph! It can be an expression he often used, or a joke that only your family knows.

What style of epitaph should I choose?

Once the text has been written or the quote chosen, it's time to determine the font and engraving style you want. The choice will, however, be determined by the type of stone and the type of monument chosen. The message can be short, engraved, or even accompanied by delicate symbols such as flowers, for example.

In our quest to honor the memory of our departed loved ones, flowers play an essential role. They are not only ornaments in funeral ceremonies, but also symbols laden with deep meaning. As we explored in our previous article on Flowers and their meanings , each flower evokes particular emotions and carries a unique message. Thus, the choice of flowers to accompany an epitaph can add an extra dimension to the tribute paid to the deceased. By harmonizing the engraved words with the chosen flowers, we express not only our pain and love, but also our respect for the person who has marked our lives. Do not hesitate to consult our shop of funeral flowers.

In conclusion, it's never easy to choose someone's last words for them. However, a well-chosen epitaph can soothe the hearts and minds of those who visit the deceased at the cemetery.

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